To the most special day of our lives
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Days
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Hours
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Minutes
2017
A hotel bar at one in the morning, one working piano, and a bartender who let us stay well past close.
2020
No parties, no crowds — just the two of us and a record player, finally learning to dance properly.
2026
Back at the same bar, at the same hour, at the same piano. He had clearly been planning it for months.

“Somewhere a band is warming up, and it's warming up for us.”
V·H
6:30
Coupes and a live quartet
7:15
Under the gold ceiling
8:30
Six courses and rather a lot of toasts
10:30
The band knows what to play
2:00
Out onto Fifth Avenue
January 16, 2027
Ceremony begins at 6:30 PM
The Gilded Room
660 Fifth Avenue, New York
What to wear
Black tie — and do go on, gild it
Gold, jet, and anything that catches the light. This is the one night nobody will accuse you of overdoing it.
Dinner is served
To begin
Iced, with rye toast and a very cold martini
The main
Or truffled leek tart — with pommes anna and buttered greens
To finish
Flamed at the table, because of course it is
Dinner is at 8:30. The bar, however, opens at 6:30 and does not close.
Be our guest
Kindly respond by January 1, 2027.